A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly departed mother and started back toward his car when his attention was diverted to Samoan man kneeling at a grave.
The Samoan man seemed to be praying with profound intensity and kept repeating " Oh my goodness! Why did you have to die?"
The first man approached him and said, "Sir, I don't wish to interfere with your private grief, but this demonstration of pain is more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you mourn so deeply? A child? A parent?"
The Samoan man took a moment to collect himself, then replied, "My wife's first husband."